Do You Take It...

To start things off, I thought I'd share a hilarious little video, which served as the inspiration for my post and its title (NSFW, but then again, I would hope that if you're reading this, you already know it contains risque material ;-) )



If you've read my previous post, you've no doubted noted that one of the toys I talked about was a strapon. I thought I'd elaborate a little more on what I wrote then, and, while we're on the subject, talk about another, closely-related topic.

First off, buttsex.

Within the broad spectrum that the realm of sex and sexual activities encompass, it's the one big unifying factor between men and women. Let's face it-- the way we're built, women will never know what it's like to give, and men will never know what it's like to receive. Surgery notwithstanding, of course ;-P But men and women both have asses. Thus, we both know what it feels like to be touched there, and to take something up there.

Therefore, anal sex is one of the few acts that can truly be shared in a way that few others can be, a sensation that we both have in common, and that can be completely understood by both partners.

Obviously, I'm a big proponent of it ;-) But what was it like for me, personally?

Now, to be honest, my first experience was neither as earth-shattering nor as traumatic as it is for other women. It was more of a "hey, I haven't done this before, let's try it for the heck of it" moment. It wasn't much of a big deal (mostly because that whole episode itself kinda fizzled-- but that's another story), but just having done it and realizing that it didn't hurt and actually felt really nice played a big role in warming me further to the idea.

Since then, I've learned that the single key factor in a successful anal experience (at least, from the receiving point of view) is basic tender loving care. I have a friend who, for a long time, eschewed the idea of buttsex, wouldn't even consider it. Then she met a guy she really fell for, and though he never pushed her for it, she knew it was something he was interested in, and eventually found herself willing to give it a try, just because she loved him so much. To her surprise, she found that it wasn't as bad as she'd always feared.

Which is why I say-- once you've tried it, it opens up a whole new world for you. This is where women have an advantage-- they have one more hole than men in which to take it ;-) It's definitely a different sensation, but can be equally (if not more) pleasurable. And when it's done with the right person, it can be an absolutely amazing experience!

So what does all this have to do with strapons? I think you know by now. And if you don't, then you have a thing or two to learn about Helly and the way her mind works ;-)

It wasn't until I was talking to someone else about the post/the toy that I realized it might be miscontrued as using it on a girl. Umm... no. No, I was talking about role-reversal-- doing a guy from behind with a strapon ;-)

A strapon may just be a fake toy, but when I'm wearing it, it comes amazingly close to feeling like it's a real part of my body. When I first used one, I didn't expect to derive any pleasure out of it, I just expected to have a little fun "turning the tables" on my ex and letting him experience how much fun anal could be. To my utter surprise, I found that I could almost outright *feel* the sensations of going in and out. Obviously it was purely psychological, as there were no actual nerve endings connecting the dildo to my brain (although I supposed double-ended dildos try to make up for that). I think it's akin to the "phantom limb" phenomenon, whereby amputees feel pain or other sensations in their now-missing limbs. It was a most eye-opening experience, and I'm still blown away at how how realistic (and terrific!) it all felt from my end. Highly recommended, ladies-- what better way to add some real dimension to your sex life than by getting a feel for what it's like to be on the giving end? ;-)

Now, I can't speak from a guy's perspective, giving it-- so I'm actually kinda curious-- what's it like for a guy to give? What's the difference between one hole and the other?